ao Renjun: Why can Wade always forgive Zhan Huang? Two words tell you the answer

Yesterday, a netizen gave me a message on the previous article. The general idea is that during the Heat, Wade took the initiative to lower the salary for James. As a result, James chose to go home. Is this friendship? "I would rather not believe it." What this netizen said is true, no fabrication. Not only him, in the eyes of many people, James did not do very well, "not enough buddies." In fact, the situation at the time was more complicated. Because of his good personal relationship with Wade, James knows Wade's injury very well. After several trade-offs, James decided to leave the Heat and return to Cleveland with Irving. After telling Sports Illustrated reporter Jekens, James and Wade flew back to Miami from Las Vegas with the same plane. At that time, Wade had already seen that James was a bit strange, but did not ask for details. In other words, as a good friend of James, Wade is not the first person to know James' decision, although this decision has a great influence on Wade. The practice of James "not enough buddies" is not the only time. Wade left the Bulls and James invited Wade to join the Cavaliers. When Smith had an emotion for Wade in the starting position, James chose to support Wade. By the middle of the season, it turned out that Wade and Thomas were really unable to integrate with other players. James did not block the management and agreed to put Wade back to the Heat. This is also considered by many fans to be "not enough for buddies" and "not enough." However, every time, Wade chose "forgive" James, only to have the emotional picture we saw, only to become a brother basketball destined to become a classic of sports history. Did we not understand Wade, or can we not understand James like Wade? "I am an ordinary athlete, a man, he is not," Wade felt so sympathetic to James in the 16th year after the game. There is no doubt that Wade is one of the greatest players in history and a top player. Many times, only the master can understand the gap between the masters. For the average fan, the top stars we see are all above 90, and there is no concept for 94 and 95. I see children swimming, can only see who is the standard of action, who is long. One of my friends, who once won a number of swimming champions, said that the child's water quality is good, can be seen at a glance, this is un teachable, is a gift. Only those who are truly knowledgeable can cherish what is truly gifted. "God makes him talented, he wants to be great," Wade said James. In the national team, and then to Miami, Wade witnessed the efforts of James. "At three in the morning, we landed, he was doing physical therapy in the room." James's serious attitude toward training and the body is beyond the imagination of many people. After losing in the finals in 2011, Wade volunteered to tell James to let him be the team leader. So, there are two champions behind. Heroes cherish heroes, between enterprising and concession, are wise and generous. James, who has hosted a family experience, cares a lot about his teammates. Regular team dinners, annual Halloween parties, James hopes to give teammates a warm team feel. No matter who he is, ask him for help, James does not refuse, "I have a open door policy". However, if James really wants to pursue something, he will never let his feelings affect his judgment. The Cavaliers in 2010 are already at the end of the strong, there is no room for reinforcement. If James wants to break through, he must change. Cleveland is his hometown, but he is pursuing greatness, the result of his talent and hard work, leaving Cleveland, and having nothing to do with loving and not loving his hometown; in 2014, Wade, who is hurt, is not willing to spend money. The Heat has gradually drifted away from the championship, leaving the Heat, and has nothing to do with the brothers. Throughout the ages, those who have become great events must have a strong desire for success in addition to their talents and hard work. Seeing the teammates who are not working hard, Jordan will scream in the training, and even smash his teammate's neck, many of his teammates, in a state of semi-stunning; seeing O'Neill not working hard, Kobe is angry and directly fight with O'Neill. All in all, not because they see teammates are not pleasing to the eye, because teammates' hard work is a stumbling block to their success. Wade, who grew up with her grandmother, also likes to have a good relationship with her teammates. In the face of James' choice, he fully understands and supports. A true friend is never sticking to the rules, but knowing the needs of the other person's heart and giving support, regardless of their own interests. This relationship, in our Chinese mood, is called a confidant. "In the first seven years, we studied each other and made teammates. We train together every day, and the other person makes herself better. He knows that I like to go to the left, and I know that he is also on the left. Together, we can always To inspire each other's best state, we all know ourselves better than each other," said James Wade. "To be an opponent, we encourage each other, we are teammates, we urge each other, we make each other better," Wade said James. The sorcerer died for the confidant, and the death is not enough, let alone other.